aHostess With Nerve (Not Pampered Chef)

[esavvymom]

I was at a friend's house today (I'll call her "V") when she received a call from one of her friends (we'll call her "S"). I know "S", and she had attended my first Pampered Chef kitchen show that I did for "V". Well, "S" was inviting "V" to a Book-party (Usborne or something maybe?) that she was "hosting" on WEDNESDAY NIGHT! Two days away!! "V" said 'no', that she and her husband have a standing "date" to watch their favorite TV show, etc. It's a family-time for her. Well, "S" wouldn't take no for an answer and started getting mad at "V"! She said things like "Well, I always have gone to YOUR parties!" (like my friend has that many, she's had two in the last few years I've known her!).

My friend persisted. But after she got off the phone, I got more of the story. Apparently, "S" was going to ANOTHER friend's House who was hosting a Tastefully simple party. So "S" decided she was going to have a book party at the same time and AT THAT OTHER LADY'S HOUSE! They are combining parties or something. I was floored...first that she did that (maybe they did it by choice, but knowing "S" enough as I do, I am sure she pushed her way in) but that she would be mad when she only gives two days notice! I asked my friend if she had anyone coming- and obviously, no one said they could come.

Let's just say, that is ONE person I am not doing a customer-care call to because frankly, I do not want to do a show for her ("S"). This is 'typical' of her. She's last minute and expects everyone ELSE to accommodate her. I can only imagine trying to do a show for her. Not worth my effort or headache, nor risking messing with friendships. I'm just an acquaintance who sees her at birthday parties, etc...but it could make it awkward for my friend.

Just had to share. I mean, I've heard of booking-in-close, but 2 days was a bit ridiculous- at least to then get MAD when folks can't come. It's one thing to try, but don't get mad when someone has plans.

 

[StacieB]

Wow, that takes a lot of nerve!!

 

[tlag1986]

Some people expect everyone to bend to them and not question. That is not for me.

 

[Fluffy215]

I have actually had a host book a party in 3 days. It was near the end of the month and she wanted that months special so she booked for the 29th and only had 3 days to get it together. It ended up being an $800 party that closed on the 31st So I would not discount a last minute party by any means LOL

As for "S" I don't like the thing of "I always come to your parties". I think the gracious thing to say would be "Ok, well maybe you can still order and I totally understand it is short notice" And then drop it. I would not call "S" a friend by any stretch of the imagination!

 

[Wildfire]

Hi there,I completely understand your frustration with the situation you described. It's always difficult when someone tries to push their way into a party or event, especially when it involves a friend. It's also disappointing when someone gets upset when others can't accommodate their last-minute plans.As a Pampered Chef consultant, I always strive to be considerate and respectful of others' schedules and commitments. It's important to give people enough notice and not put any pressure on them to attend a party or event. I'm sorry that your friend experienced this kind of behavior from "S."I appreciate you sharing your experience with me, and I completely understand why you wouldn't want to do a show for "S." It's important to prioritize your own well-being and avoid any potential headaches or conflicts.Thank you for being a loyal customer and for supporting my business. I hope to see you at one of my future shows!Best,