dannyzmom
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I signed a new gal down in Miami yesterday. She lives about 1 hour and 15 mins away from me.
My AD (the one I just broke off from doing meetings with) holds meetings down in Miami as well as up in our county. When I told her my new gal might be attending her cook & book in Miami...she basically said "only if you will let my girls come to your meetings"
I am FUMING
I wrote her back pointing out that my girls are part of HER downline!!!
Well...here is what I wrote:
ME: But isn't my team part of YOUR downline??
HER: sure, but you don't want to reciprocate? Are you suggesting that I train your cluster and you won't train mine? Carolyn, YOU said you wanted to work with your team.
ME: It's not a matter of reciprocating - it's a matter of me wanting to work with MY team to help us bond as a cluster. We have been unable to do that holding meetings with your cluster. We've had personality clashes between the two teams where my girls are not comfortable with the negativity that was coming from several of your girls (Jane, Sally, Doris...yes, Doris is a very sweet person but as far as her attitude about her business that she shows at meetings, it was very discouraging to my team).
I don't make a dime in overrides from your team and if their attendance is damaging the moral of my team, I can't afford that. You, on the other hand, DO make overrides on my team so I would think you would WANT to help train them. My newest gal in Miami, Lorraine, is a single mom working full time. My meetings are held an hour away from where she lives. She would never be able to get all the way up here after work on a Monday night.
If you would rather not have her at the Miami meetings, I can put in a request for hospitality for her. I just thought, being that you get paid on her sales, that you would want to be the one offering her that hospitality.
(names have been changed to protect the innocent)
I have not yet sent the reply...shoudl I?
Am I wrong??
Oh, and PS...yesterday I rec'd my monthly newsletter from AD and enclosed was an invitation to the Cook & Book...why enclose an invitation when you're not really inviting??
My AD (the one I just broke off from doing meetings with) holds meetings down in Miami as well as up in our county. When I told her my new gal might be attending her cook & book in Miami...she basically said "only if you will let my girls come to your meetings"
I am FUMING
I wrote her back pointing out that my girls are part of HER downline!!!
Well...here is what I wrote:
ME: But isn't my team part of YOUR downline??
HER: sure, but you don't want to reciprocate? Are you suggesting that I train your cluster and you won't train mine? Carolyn, YOU said you wanted to work with your team.
ME: It's not a matter of reciprocating - it's a matter of me wanting to work with MY team to help us bond as a cluster. We have been unable to do that holding meetings with your cluster. We've had personality clashes between the two teams where my girls are not comfortable with the negativity that was coming from several of your girls (Jane, Sally, Doris...yes, Doris is a very sweet person but as far as her attitude about her business that she shows at meetings, it was very discouraging to my team).
I don't make a dime in overrides from your team and if their attendance is damaging the moral of my team, I can't afford that. You, on the other hand, DO make overrides on my team so I would think you would WANT to help train them. My newest gal in Miami, Lorraine, is a single mom working full time. My meetings are held an hour away from where she lives. She would never be able to get all the way up here after work on a Monday night.
If you would rather not have her at the Miami meetings, I can put in a request for hospitality for her. I just thought, being that you get paid on her sales, that you would want to be the one offering her that hospitality.
(names have been changed to protect the innocent)
I have not yet sent the reply...shoudl I?
Am I wrong??
Oh, and PS...yesterday I rec'd my monthly newsletter from AD and enclosed was an invitation to the Cook & Book...why enclose an invitation when you're not really inviting??