Proper Etiquette for Pet Owners: Avoiding Unwanted Greetings and Germs

[rennea]

Bull Mastif (female, as big as me (see "big girl" in dictionary) & "friendly" <--ya right?!? ~ almost take my hand off!

Bull Mastifs scare me, they are so huge!! Pitbulls are another breed that make sure run for cover

 

[chefkristin]

I don't know if its going to happen but there has been talk that pitbulls might be banned in the state of MA. Too many attacks on little kids.

 

[katie0128]

Hmmm, you guys have me wondering if my girls have ever offended any of my guests in my home. I have two Miniature Schnauzers who are definitely part of the family and have no idea they are not human. LOL! They definitely bark when the doorbell rings, then they have to get a couple barks in when they see you (with tails wagging the whole time) because they KNOW you're here to see THEM. Then I have one who will calm down and go lay down, but the other one.... She's crazy! We adopted her about a year and half ago when she was almost 10 and she's hopeless! I love her but I always say she's an "affection whore." If you start petting her, don't even think you can just stop. She'll inch closer and closer, get on the couch next to you, paw you, etc. But, they don't go for the face (except me and my family). They just want love. I guess I need to be more careful about letting her "pursue" the affection the way she does because I would hate to offend anyone.

IMO you have just hit on what I think this thread was started for... just for pet owners to realize that while you may think of your pets as family, not every share the same opinion and people can be offended if animals are "forced" upon them... just being courteous, mindful and RESPECTFUL of other's feelings - both from consultant to host and host to consultant!

 

[rennea]

I don't know if its going to happen but there has been talk that pitbulls might be banned in the state of MA. Too many attacks on little kids.

I think that pitbulls are banned in Ontario, I heard that they were planning on doing so don't know if it ever happened.

 

[pcchris]

Sorry, I just gotta pipe in here...in regards to Debi's post, YOUR dogs live in YOUR home, just as my dog lives in my home. If people come over as a guest in my home, I do not feel that I have to put my dog away, unless they are terrified of dogs. (No one I know is). Everyone who knows me, knows that all you have to do it pat her head a couple of times, and she will be happy with that. I can see requesting to a PC host that they might put their animals somewhere else during the demo if they are going to be obnoxious, but when someone comes into my home as a guest, I would be mortified if someone asked me to put her away. Although, I have had the kids take her into another room when she won't calm down. I'm sure my post will anger some of you, but I had to say something. If you don't like animals, that's your business, and that's okay! but if you are going to enter my home, you have to accept the fact that I have a dog, and deal with it. If you don't want to pet her, that's fine. After her initial excitement (couple minutes), she won't bother you anymore, unless you call her. As I said in a previous post, if I hold her when you come in, she's fine. Sorry if this is "cold", but that's how I feel. Sorry for the long post...

 

[Chef Endora]

My Lhasa-poo, Buster was the best dog I ever had. We had to let him go last October. He was sociable in a polite way. I love dogs & am not especially a cat person but do have a special place in my heart for my grandcat. He come to the door when they yell "Deekie, Grama's here!"

I also have a Scottish Terrioriest-grandog named Snickers. KG, you are right on about the rodent thing. She hates my DH's RC car

 

[Chef Endora]

Oh! I forgot....I had a show at the Munster's house last Friday. The host's DH came walking out with a noisy pouch looking thing hanging around his neck. There was a mesh panel on the pouch & I could see wiggling animals inside. One of the kids told me they were flying squirrels! Oh, swell! They were making a noise that sounded mechanical & very unhappy. He told me they were bonding with him. Whatever.

The next day when I spoke with the host, she told me they are Sugar Gliders & the female is pregnant.

Anybody know anything about these? I googled & they are native of Australia
& in the possum family. At least they can't goose ya.

 

[pamperedbecky]

Here is Nutmeg. All of our pets have been named after culinary terms. She is a red beagle and it seems to fit.

Oh my gosh, she is SOOO cute!!!

 

[MissChef]

Oh! I forgot....I had a show at the Munster's house last Friday. The host's DH came walking out with a noisy pouch looking thing hanging around his neck. There was a mesh panel on the pouch & I could see wiggling animals inside. One of the kids told me they were flying squirrels! Oh, swell! They were making a noise that sounded mechanical & very unhappy. He told me they were bonding with him. Whatever.

The next day when I spoke with the host, she told me they are Sugar Gliders & the female is pregnant.

Anybody know anything about these? I googled & they are native of Australia
& in the possum family. At least they can't goose ya.

My FIL use to have one of those darn things! They are cute but freaky! I would never get close enough. I don't remember much about it, this was about 11 1/2 -12 years ago... and I was pregnant with my son, so I had pregnancy brain too!
I'll ask my hubby, he's sure to know and remember it more and see if I can post some more about them on here. Anything in partcular you want to know?

 

[tdawson]

You gave me an idea.I have found all of your points of veiw very interesting. I would like to do well this month and want to fill my calander. I have been trying to "break out of my circle of friends". It is tough!
After reading all of these posts I have come up with an idea. I do not want to insult ANYONE who is not a dog person. I only wish to share an idea with those who might think this could be fun.
I have alot of dog parks near my home.
I am going to make up a flyer to try and book dog cooking shows. We pet lovers spend alot of money on our pets (well I do ) Why not try and tap into that market? I am sure I could find recipes made for dogs. I have read tips about using the garlic press for crushing pills. I also read somewhere about using the decorator bottles to give liqiud medications. (not something I would do, but hey to each his own)
I figure my dogs need a walk anyway, what do I have to lose but a couple of bucks in flyers. Who knows it might be kooky enough to work.
If any one has an ideas let me know. Thanks!

 

[PamperedChefDebi]

I have found all of your points of veiw very interesting. I would like to do well this month and want to fill my calander. I have been trying to "break out of my circle of friends". It is tough!
After reading all of these posts I have come up with an idea. I do not want to insult ANYONE who is not a dog person. I only wish to share an idea with those who might think this could be fun.
I have alot of dog parks near my home.
I am going to make up a flyer to try and book dog cooking shows. We pet lovers spend alot of money on our pets (well I do ) Why not try and tap into that market? I am sure I could find recipes made for dogs. I have read tips about using the garlic press for crushing pills. I also read somewhere about using the decorator bottles to give liqiud medications. (not something I would do, but hey to each his own)
I figure my dogs need a walk anyway, what do I have to lose but a couple of bucks in flyers. Who knows it might be kooky enough to work.
If any one has an ideas let me know. Thanks!

There are recipes on here for Pampered Pooch shows!! Just do a couple searches.

 

[PamperedChefDebi]

Sorry, I just gotta pipe in here...in regards to Debi's post, YOUR dogs live in YOUR home, just as my dog lives in my home. If people come over as a guest in my home, I do not feel that I have to put my dog away, unless they are terrified of dogs. (No one I know is). Everyone who knows me, knows that all you have to do it pat her head a couple of times, and she will be happy with that. I can see requesting to a PC host that they might put their animals somewhere else during the demo if they are going to be obnoxious, but when someone comes into my home as a guest, I would be mortified if someone asked me to put her away. Although, I have had the kids take her into another room when she won't calm down. I'm sure my post will anger some of you, but I had to say something. If you don't like animals, that's your business, and that's okay! but if you are going to enter my home, you have to accept the fact that I have a dog, and deal with it. If you don't want to pet her, that's fine. After her initial excitement (couple minutes), she won't bother you anymore, unless you call her. As I said in a previous post, if I hold her when you come in, she's fine. Sorry if this is "cold", but that's how I feel. Sorry for the long post...

I COMPLETELY agree with where you are coming from. BUT at the same time, I would hate someone to NOT come to my house because my dogs are "TOO" friendly for them. If they were really MORTIFIED of dogs, I would have no problem putting my girls in another part of the house. Otherwise, I do make Heidi, the Affection Whore, go somewhere and lay down, and most people say, "No, it's OK" and keep loving on her. Folks would lose on the allergy approach because my dogs are "hypo-allergenic" as dogs go. I'M allergic to dogs and cats.

 

[etteluap70PC]

Sorry, I just gotta pipe in here...in regards to Debi's post, YOUR dogs live in YOUR home, just as my dog lives in my home. If people come over as a guest in my home, I do not feel that I have to put my dog away, unless they are terrified of dogs. (No one I know is). Everyone who knows me, knows that all you have to do it pat her head a couple of times, and she will be happy with that. I can see requesting to a PC host that they might put their animals somewhere else during the demo if they are going to be obnoxious, but when someone comes into my home as a guest, I would be mortified if someone asked me to put her away. Although, I have had the kids take her into another room when she won't calm down. I'm sure my post will anger some of you, but I had to say something. If you don't like animals, that's your business, and that's okay! but if you are going to enter my home, you have to accept the fact that I have a dog, and deal with it. If you don't want to pet her, that's fine. After her initial excitement (couple minutes), she won't bother you anymore, unless you call her. As I said in a previous post, if I hold her when you come in, she's fine. Sorry if this is "cold", but that's how I feel. Sorry for the long post...

I totaly respect that you do what you feel is right for you and everyone in your family.... including the 4 legged variety.

I want to give a personal experience... I have a very good friend who has 5 little dogs. They bark like crazy when anyone comes to the door. When our children were smaller (2&3 years old) we had playdates at her house sometimes. The dogs would jump at my daughter looking for attention and kisses. While she liked the dogs this behavior frightened my daughter. It really would irritate me that she knew we did not like to be jumped on but would not always kennel the dogs. I always had a much nicer time at my friends home when the dogs were out of the way for at least part of the time. Now I will say that I still wnet to this friends home In a way I always kind of dreaded it. Would you want as a pet owner for your friends to feel that way? I would not.....

Just my Honest opinion...... I mean no malice toward anyone.....

 

[tpchefrebecca]

I totaly respect that you do what you feel is right for you and everyone in your family.... including the 4 legged variety.

I want to give a personal experience... I have a very good friend who has 5 little dogs. They bark like crazy when anyone comes to the door. When our children were smaller (2&3 years old) we had playdates at her house sometimes. The dogs would jump at my daughter looking for attention and kisses. While she liked the dogs this behavior frightened my daughter. It really would irritate me that she knew we did not like to be jumped on but would not always kennel the dogs. I always had a much nicer time at my friends home when the dogs were out of the way for at least part of the time. Now I will say that I still wnet to this friends home In a way I always kind of dreaded it. Would you want as a pet owner for your friends to feel that way? I would not.....

Just my Honest opinion...... I mean no malice toward anyone.....

That reminds me of my best friend who has a Weimerainer (can't spell it, sorry) This is a huge dog. Before our family of pets we were renting and couldn't have pets at all! Anway, she got this dog as a pup. It was already trained and she took more classes with the kids. My kids were deathly afraid of animals at the time and I asked I needed her to watch my son. My son swore to me that he would be okay and I wanted to see if he would be. He really wanted to go and I had no one else. Well it didn't go well. I came back from my show and she was scared to tell me what happened. They had to baracade my son in a safe corner with all the toys until I got back. The dog would not want to stop playing and her kids didn't want the dog in the crate since she would start barking and crying. Her husband had kept my son company and all the family tried to comfort him. I felt horrible. I couldn't believe I could have let this happened. I never went inside her house for over a year and a half after that. We didn't go trick or treating either even though that was the tradition to go to her house for halloween. It was my decision to keep my kids away from her home so that their dog who thinks she is a child and not a dog could be comfortable in her home. We decided to do play dates at parks, w/o the dog, and the kids still had their friends. This was my decision and I think the best one.

Now that we have a whole family of pets since we bought our home our kids are just fine with small animals. We are working gradually toward larger dogs. They go to puppy class with me which have all sizes and breeds of dogs. I only wish I could have had this back home in SD, CA. My kids love their pets and I can't wait for my friends to visit and see the change.

 

[rennea]

Oh! I forgot....I had a show at the Munster's house last Friday. The host's DH came walking out with a noisy pouch looking thing hanging around his neck. There was a mesh panel on the pouch & I could see wiggling animals inside. One of the kids told me they were flying squirrels! Oh, swell! They were making a noise that sounded mechanical & very unhappy. He told me they were bonding with him. Whatever.

The next day when I spoke with the host, she told me they are Sugar Gliders & the female is pregnant.

Anybody know anything about these? I googled & they are native of Australia
& in the possum family. At least they can't goose ya.

My sister has gliders, they breed like crazy. They will jump (fly) from person to person and it scares me. They also have a very bad smell to them. They sleep through day and are up all night, they make lots of noise. My sister has 8 right now and two of the femals are going to have babies. My sister spends a lot of time finding good families for them use they are so different and you just can't put them anywhere and feed them anything.

 

[ahammons]

I think that pitbulls are banned in Ontario, I heard that they were planning on doing so don't know if it ever happened.

I've heard that they're trying to do the same thing in California.

Honestly, I think it's all in the way people raise them. I know that not all pitbulls are mean or aggressive, but it's also hard to tell who's raised them to be that way and who hasn't. I just saw a list of the top 75 restricted or banned dog breeds... I guess I'm a little surprised at some of the dogs on there. Like I said before, I'm not exactly an animal lover, but I do have a German Shepherd and it's one of the listed breeds. Chow chows are also listed on there - My grandparents had one when I was growing up, and he was the sweetest dog (dumb too, but mainly sweet! lol).

 

[tpchefrebecca]

I've heard that they're trying to do the same thing in California.

Honestly, I think it's all in the way people raise them. I know that not all pitbulls are mean or aggressive, but it's also hard to tell who's raised them to be that way and who hasn't. QUOTE]

We have one in puppy class. His name is Trouble. I was terrified and didn't want (still don't want) my children to pet him. He is a sweetheart, but one wrong move and you just don't know. he loves treats and the kids to pet him. I guess that is the way with most dogs, but it seems the owners are really trying so that they don't have an aggressive dog. I know I will never get one.

 

[ahammons]

Here's the list if anyone is interested. Sorry it's so long!
1. AIREDALE TERRIER
2. AKBASH
3. AKITA
4. ALAPAHA BLUE BLOOD BULLDOG
5. ALASKAN MALAMUTE
6. ALSATIAN SHEPHERD
7. AMERICAN BULLDOG
8. AMERICAN HUSKY
9. AMERICAN PIT BULL TERRIER
10. AMERICAN STAFFORDSHIRE TERRIER
11. AMERICAN WOLFDOG
12. ANATOLIAN SHEPHERD
13. ARIKARA DOG
14. AUSTRALIAN CATTLE DOG
15. AUSTRALIAN SHEPHERD
16. BELGIAN MALINOIS
17. BELGIAN SHEEPDOG
18. BELGIAN TURVUREN
19. BLUE HEELER
20. BOERBUL
21. BORZOI
22. BOSTON TERRIER
23. BOUVIER DES FLANDRES
24. BOXER
25. BULLDOG
26. BULL TERRIER
27. BULL MASTIFF
28. CANE CORSO
29. CATAHOULA LEOPARD DOG
30. CAUCASIAN SHEPHERD
31. CHINESE SHAR PEI
32. CHOW-CHOW
33. COLORADO DOG
34. DOBERMAN PINSCHER
35. DOGO DE ARGENTINO
36. DOGUE DE BORDEAUX
37. ENGLISH MASTIFFS
38. ENGLISH SPRINGER SPANIEL
39. ESKIMO DOG
40. ESTRELA MOUNTAIN DOG
41. FILA BRASILIERO
42. FOX TERRIER
43. FRENCH BULLDOG
44. GERMAN SHEPHERD DOG
45. GOLDEN RETRIEVER
46. GREENLAND HUSKY
47. GREAT DANE
48. GREAT PYRANEES
49. ITALIAN MASTIFF
50. KANGAL DOG
51. KEESHOND
52. KOMONDOR
53. KOTEZEBUE HUSKY
54. KUVAZ
55. LABRADOR RETRIEVER
56. LEONBERGER
57. MASTIFF
58. NEOPOLITAN MASTIFF
59. NEWFOUNDLAND
60. OTTERHOUND
61. PRESA DE CANARIO
62. PRESA DE MALLORQUIN
63. PUG
64. ROTTWEILER
65. SAARLOOS WOLFHOND
66. SAINT BERNARD
67. SAMOYED
68. SCOTTISH DEERHOUND
69. SIBERIAN HUSKY
70. SPANISH MASTIFF
71. STAFFORDSHIRE BULL TERRIER
72. TIMBER SHEPHERD
73. TOSA INU
74. TUNDRA SHEPHERD
75. WOLF SPITZ

 

[Chef Endora]

Can you interact with Gliders? They just sounded like they were p***ed off.
Very loud, sort of nasty looking. An acquaintance told me that she got one for her son several years ago & got rid of it because it was mean. If I am gonna have an animal it has to have a sweet disposition or I won't waste my time.

 

[ChefBeckyD]

Some of those on the list are surprising - Golden Retriever?
But as far as Pit Bulls go.......I would NEVER let my son around one. You here about attacks too often, and I know some say it's all in how they are raised - but it seems to me that often, after the attack, the owners are mystified "We can't understand - he's always been so gentle - just like part of our family...." Yep - they are all gentle - until they attack a small child. It only takes once, and I don't want my child to be that "once".

 

[rennea]

Can you interact with Gliders? They just sounded like they were p***ed off.
Very loud, sort of nasty looking. An acquaintance told me that she got one for her son several years ago & got rid of it because it was mean. If I am gonna have an animal it has to have a sweet disposition or I won't waste my time.

My sisters are not mean but they can be mean to each other when they are breeding so I have been told. They "bark" at night when they are running around. If they were up in the daylight then they were probably upset.

 

[rennea]

I can't believe that pugs are on the list.....

 

[luvs2sellit]

Where did that list come from?? Are they kidding? Labradors and Goldens? Those are the two most family/kid friendly dogs I know. I know you didn't make the list but whoever did is whacko.

 

[reba515]

Some of those on the list are surprising - Golden Retriever?
But as far as Pit Bulls go.......I would NEVER let my son around one. You here about attacks too often,.

this is the part of the problem why people are so afraid of pitbulls, they are one of the very few breeds who make the news. I know people who have been bitten or chased by poodles or jack russsels and other smaller "friendly" breeds but you don't see them on the news or banned from states do we.

 

[ahammons]

I know, I don't see how Golden retrievers, labs, pugs, german shepherds, and a few other breeds are on that list!!! It's crazy!
The list was made from a group called RDOWS (Responsible Dog Owners of the Western States). I think someone sent it to me in an e-mail, but I can't remember.

 

[ChefBeckyD]

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this is the part of the problem why people are so afraid of pitbulls, they are one of the very few breeds who make the news. I know people who have been bitten or chased by poodles or jack russsels and other smaller "friendly" breeds but you don't see them on the news or banned from states do we.

Maybe because children aren't killed by a poodle bite? Not trying to be sarcastic or anything - but there is a difference!

 

[MissChef]

I have to say I agree Becky! That is a valid point! Usually your smaller breeds can bite but they are usually not life threatening incidents. With the larger breeds, and the more common ones that attack, it is usually life threatening or at very least life changing!

 

[ahammons]

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this is the part of the problem why people are so afraid of pitbulls, they are one of the very few breeds who make the news. I know people who have been bitten or chased by poodles or jack russsels and other smaller "friendly" breeds but you don't see them on the news or banned from states do we.

I know what you mean - my DH comes from a dog-loving family, and each of his brothers have at least one. One has a german shepherd, one has a boxer, two have poodles, and one has an english bulldog and Lapsa Alpsa(sp). I would much rather my children be around the GSD and Boxer than the other ones. The lapsa alpsa has bitten kids in the past, but my SIL just blamed it on the kids. I'm sorry, but there's not way I'd let mine alone with that dog! The poodles also have a tendency to snap at kids. As for the english bulldog, I just don't want her slobbering all over my kids! lol In my experience, the bigger dogs in our family have been the most gentle with kids.... but that's just my experience.

 

[ahammons]

I remember reading about this in a parenting magazine a couple of years ago. It was to remind parents not to leave a baby alone with an animal no matter what...

Baby Girl Killed by Family Dog
Monday, October 9, 2000

A 6-week-old girl died Saturday night after she was mauled by the family's dog, according to the Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department.

An uncle baby-sitting the newborn left the child on a bed unattended while he went to the kitchen to prepare a bottle for her, Solis said. When he returned, he found the family's Pomeranian dog on the bed attacking the baby, Solis said.

The man freed the child from the dog and called for help. The baby died shortly after at Queen of the Valley Hospital in West Covina.whose name has been withheld by officials, were in the Philippines, Solis said.
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This is just so sad!

 

[reba515]

My point exactly. no matter the size or breed.