The_Kitchen_Guy said:Okay, I'm going to actually be serious here for a minute. (But only a minute, then I'll go back to being myself.)
This isn't your problem, it's his problem, and it's time you stop owning it. It's his problem but he has successfully transferred ownership to you, so it's time to give it back and let him own it again. You've tried everything and he's given you no help. I'd tell him that from now on, you're cooking for your family because I'm done. Here's where the cookbooks are, here's where the utensils are and here's the apron.
Make his problem his problem again. Stop owning it.
Tough love KG... but you are on the money.