GeorgiaPeach
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Two years ago a boy at my daughter's school started stalking her (she was a sophmore). Following her in the halls, staring at her, brushing against her bottom in the halls. She was uncomfortable but since the halls were crowded, she couldn't prove it was him. I told her to report him if it happened again (brushing against her). It stopped right after that.
Last year he wrote her a note detailing things he liked about her body, etc. We immediately took it to the school and campus police talked to him and filed a report. Nothing else happened the rest of the year.
Today I get a call to come to the school, she got another note and was really shaken up. This note talks about how he has 2 personalities...one good, one bad. The bad was "asleep" until he saw her. He goes on and on about how he has always done bad things to girls he liked and he doesn't know why. He blamed her for everything "if she would have told him to stop 2 years ago he would have". The entire note is very disturbing.
The principal suggested we might need to get a restraining order. Now that we have read the note, we agree. There is a hearing on Monday that my daughter will have to testify at (school board) where all the evidence will be presented against him in hopes of getting him put in an alternative school.
We are waiting til Monday to pursue the restraining order so we can have copies of the reports, etc.
Has anyone else gone through this? What do we do? What do we need to present as evidence of harrassment?
Last year he wrote her a note detailing things he liked about her body, etc. We immediately took it to the school and campus police talked to him and filed a report. Nothing else happened the rest of the year.
Today I get a call to come to the school, she got another note and was really shaken up. This note talks about how he has 2 personalities...one good, one bad. The bad was "asleep" until he saw her. He goes on and on about how he has always done bad things to girls he liked and he doesn't know why. He blamed her for everything "if she would have told him to stop 2 years ago he would have". The entire note is very disturbing.
The principal suggested we might need to get a restraining order. Now that we have read the note, we agree. There is a hearing on Monday that my daughter will have to testify at (school board) where all the evidence will be presented against him in hopes of getting him put in an alternative school.
We are waiting til Monday to pursue the restraining order so we can have copies of the reports, etc.
Has anyone else gone through this? What do we do? What do we need to present as evidence of harrassment?