Kathytnt
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Today was my one year anniversary - I dropped in to see my DAD beacuse he is cause he is having surgery tomorrow. Talked to him for 2 minutes then his wife walked in. Asked if we had gotten the anniversary card they had sent. I said yes and thank you. Then she laid into me about how for 20 years they had never received an anniversary card or call on their anniversary from any of us. Myself or siblings. Maybe I am not familiar with the custom or the other zillion transgression I seem to have done to this woman. (Apparently according to her you are supposed to eat an eggroll with a knife and fork - I never knew)
I became visible upset - Usually I just bite my toungue and take it but not this time. My husband stood up for me and politely told her he coulding understand why she was always laying this guilt trip on us. Last week she was wondering why we never visit etc. Well if you got treated like this and were upset for two days why would you want to visit. We were out of their house in less than 5 minutes.
I don't know what is wrong with this woman. We (siblings and I) can never seem to do anything right in her eyes. I love my Dad but this woman is so mean.
It ruined my day and even my husband is so upset and he is not usually the type that gets upset easily.
I did tell my Dad I loved him before I left but I am so scared about the surgery tomorrow. I was going to go to the hospital originally but I just can't be around this woman.
I have stopped cyring and am gong to go celebrate with our top layer of our wedding cake but this has really hurt us today..
Thanks for listening/reading today!
Kathy
I became visible upset - Usually I just bite my toungue and take it but not this time. My husband stood up for me and politely told her he coulding understand why she was always laying this guilt trip on us. Last week she was wondering why we never visit etc. Well if you got treated like this and were upset for two days why would you want to visit. We were out of their house in less than 5 minutes.
I don't know what is wrong with this woman. We (siblings and I) can never seem to do anything right in her eyes. I love my Dad but this woman is so mean.
It ruined my day and even my husband is so upset and he is not usually the type that gets upset easily.
I did tell my Dad I loved him before I left but I am so scared about the surgery tomorrow. I was going to go to the hospital originally but I just can't be around this woman.
I have stopped cyring and am gong to go celebrate with our top layer of our wedding cake but this has really hurt us today..
Thanks for listening/reading today!
Kathy