i have 2 shows next weekend and i am trying to nail down specifics for one of them. every time i call i get voice mail, and i leave messages for her letting her know i am available at her convenience, but i will still be trying to reach just the same. i would threaten to just show up on time for the show, but i don't have her home address. some back ground on her, she is my insurance agent. when i was in the process of switching to her insurance company she said she would love to do a show. it has been rescheduled like, 4 times. i would say maybe she isn't interested, but she keeps going on how everyone is so excited and how excited she is. and every time it is rescheduled it is me asking her what she wants to do, and her response has been to reschedual. so as far as i can tell, i am only keeping up my end of the deal. but i got a hold of her on monday while she was at work (i had an insurance question for her) and i set up a time to call her that night since she was too busy at the moment to talk about the show. i'm getting nervous that she is blowing me off and i'm supposed to take a hint. part of me just wants to come out and ask her if she wants to call it off since she doesn't want to make the time for a 2 minute phone call. :grumpy: but the only way it would come out of my mouth would be most likely offensive to her so i'm keeping my trap shut. if she doesn't want to have they show that is fine, i will survive. but a week out i would like to know if my saturday has opened up. hubby is a month out and if i got a free saturady, i'd like to know. any pearls of wisdom would be very much appreciated! TIA!