Remember, too, that there's a big difference between organized and neat. I'm a piler, too. I'm also extremely visual. I've figured out a system that works for me. I rarely lose anything and can lay my hands on whatever I need when I need it. I'm just not neat.My mom, on the other hand, is extremely neat. She's terribly unorganized. She can't ever seem to find things (stamps, cards, paperwork, etc.) when she needs them. I've come to terms with who I am. I'm still working on being neater, but I no longer beat myself up.