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GermantownPC
Wear the black dress and accessorize it with a cute pair a heels...like red and then some a bracelet or something else to match.
I work as an event and banquet sales director (i.e. wedding coordinator) at a private country club and I've seen so many different styles at weddings. The important thing to remember is that you will always look better than the crazy aunt and that the attention is on the bride...even though we all want the attention to be on us right?
Go ahead, wear the same dress to multiple events. You could always change your accessories. My favorite little black dress I wore to three different weddings last year (that had similar guest lists). At the third wedding on the season, my best friend (who also attended the other weddings) asked me where I got my new dress. I just laughed.
Have fun at the weddings. I have eight weddings this year to date and am expected a couple more invitations. Gotta love this age though since most of my business is coming from wedding registries.