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I feel funny for posting this...but I am really sick and tired of this nonsense.
Here's the deal...I've been friends with Jenn for about 15 years on and off. We comes from different backgrounds...she did some things I did not agree with and we stopped talking for a few years, until about Sept. 2005, when I was going to be married in Oct.
We kept in contact via email til January 2007, when she picked up a night job where I was working. We worked together til August (mainly working together on Sundays).
Since I quit that job in August, I rarely speak to hear. I do consider her one of my closest friends, but lately with the guy she has been seeing, I don't see her quite so much.
Again, she has done some things I don't agree with---I think she likes his $$, he bought her a car, they live together. She had a miscarriage, told me she didnt love him and it was for the best. I invited her for dinner over Christmas and she brought him. She said it was the first time they had hung out in awhile.
I havent seen her since the time they came for dinner. (which they were hours late for) I was so mad.
Her bday was in Feb, still have a gift for her. She also went to Vegas with BF in Feb. She never told me any details of the vacation until one day I get an email with a diamond ring. I said "oh you are getting serious" and she says..."We're engaged did I forget to tell you" UMMM YES.
Jenn kept saying "I will tell you the details" its almost June and you've guessed it...NO DETAILS. NO EMAIL. NO PHONE CALLS. NOTHING.
I've emailed and called and she never replies. I either chalk it up, "that's how she is" but it so frustrates me.
I am seriously at the end of the rope. Sorry for the long email...but any suggestions on how YOU would handle it?
I thank all of you for your friendship...and to Jrstephens who has been a real friend to me!!:love:
Here's the deal...I've been friends with Jenn for about 15 years on and off. We comes from different backgrounds...she did some things I did not agree with and we stopped talking for a few years, until about Sept. 2005, when I was going to be married in Oct.
We kept in contact via email til January 2007, when she picked up a night job where I was working. We worked together til August (mainly working together on Sundays).
Since I quit that job in August, I rarely speak to hear. I do consider her one of my closest friends, but lately with the guy she has been seeing, I don't see her quite so much.
Again, she has done some things I don't agree with---I think she likes his $$, he bought her a car, they live together. She had a miscarriage, told me she didnt love him and it was for the best. I invited her for dinner over Christmas and she brought him. She said it was the first time they had hung out in awhile.
I havent seen her since the time they came for dinner. (which they were hours late for) I was so mad.
Her bday was in Feb, still have a gift for her. She also went to Vegas with BF in Feb. She never told me any details of the vacation until one day I get an email with a diamond ring. I said "oh you are getting serious" and she says..."We're engaged did I forget to tell you" UMMM YES.
Jenn kept saying "I will tell you the details" its almost June and you've guessed it...NO DETAILS. NO EMAIL. NO PHONE CALLS. NOTHING.
I've emailed and called and she never replies. I either chalk it up, "that's how she is" but it so frustrates me.
I am seriously at the end of the rope. Sorry for the long email...but any suggestions on how YOU would handle it?
I thank all of you for your friendship...and to Jrstephens who has been a real friend to me!!:love: