Got a call tonight from my mother-in-law, my brother-in-law is getting married in 11 days! My husband (his brother) is not in the wedding! only one best man (his friend) and one brides maid (her friend). My BIL was the best man at our wedding. My one daughter can be the flower girl, but not the other? Why is she privelaged? I have a show that night, that invites have already been sent. What is he thinking? Who tells someone 11 days before a wedding? I'm not going! Now my husband says he won't be going if since he's not in it. How inconsiderate. Though that's my BIL. He's always been self centered. Why is my mother-in-law calling to invite us? My BIL can't? Of course this is his second marriage. This one he got pregnant after meeting her at the bar. Two years after their baby is born, he's now getting married out of the blue? Tried calling my BIL and he's not answering his phone.