Ever Get Mad at Yourself After Shows?

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Discussion Overview

This thread explores the feelings of frustration and self-criticism that some Pampered Chef consultants experience after their shows, particularly regarding missed opportunities for bookings and forgetting parts of their presentation. Participants share their personal experiences and coping strategies related to these challenges.

Discussion Character

  • Anecdotal
  • Opinion-based

Main Points Raised

  • One participant, identifying as a consultant, expresses frustration over not asking for bookings and forgetting parts of their presentation, despite having a successful show.
  • Another participant shares their experience of a disappointing show but notes that follow-up calls can lead to bookings, emphasizing the importance of persistence.
  • Several users mention that forgetting parts of the presentation is common and suggest that guests may ask questions if something is missed, which can alleviate some pressure.
  • One participant discusses using incentives like free shipping to encourage bookings, highlighting a personal strategy that helped them remember to ask.
  • Another participant reassures that it's normal to feel disappointed and emphasizes that each show is a learning opportunity, encouraging a positive outlook on future performances.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Views differ on the extent of frustration experienced after shows, with some participants feeling more critical of themselves than others. No clear consensus emerges regarding the best strategies for overcoming these feelings.

Contextual Notes

Participants share their experiences in the context of being Pampered Chef consultants, reflecting on the emotional challenges of presenting and engaging with guests during shows.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants who experience self-doubt or frustration after their shows may find the shared experiences and coping strategies relevant to their own situations.

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Christa
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I had a show last night...its my 4th month...host was ready to cancel because she thought it wouldn't be worth my while...we're at $740 so far so its was great. HOWEVER, I get so upset with myself when I don't ask for bookings, forget parts of my spiel, etc. Why can't I be happy with this show and move on? Will I get better about this? It had been 3 weeks between Cooking Shows. :(
 
I'm sure everyone here has gotten angry with themselves after a show. There's still time to make up for it though. My recruiter is just getting started too and she shared with me that one of her shows was such a bust and she asked for bookings but no one took her up on it. She was so disappointed.
However, she made calls the next day to thank each person for coming and to ask again. She ended up with at least 2 bookings.

Maybe you could call your guests and say something like...."Hi Susan, this is Christa from the Pampered Chef. I had such a great time last night at Sherries show. Did you enjoy yourself too? Great! Well, I want to thank you for placing an order with me and I was wondering, would you consider having some friends over for an evening of fun and let me pamper you with The Pampered Chef?"

You might be pleasantly suprised at the response.

Meanwhile, it's ok to use index cards to help you remember the outline of your show. Guests certainly don't mind and they are usually very impressed at how you were able to keep it all organized and together.

Good luck!
 
I used to get angry at myself for forgetting stuff but now i just take it all in stride. Sometimes if you dont cover yourself the guests will ask questions! If they dont and you still forget it wll be ok!! when you make your big mac calls ask them if they have any questions from last nights party. you never know it may lead to recruiting questions as well!! good luck
 
There is definately time to make up for "forgetfulness" or as I call it "mommy brain"! We all have our shows where we forget something that could have been important. I used to always forget to ask about bookings, so for a while I offered free shipping if I didn't ask...doing that got me into the habit of asking and now when I have people lined up to place their orders the guests will over hear what I am asking but I still ask everyone individually. Plus big MAC calls are huge, you never know if you can add to an order, get a booking or a recruit! It's never too late to call!!!
 
Hi there! First of all, congratulations on your successful show last night! It's always a great feeling when a show surpasses our expectations and we make a good amount of sales. As for your concerns about forgetting parts of your spiel and not asking for bookings, please don't be too hard on yourself. It's natural to feel a little disappointed when we don't perform perfectly, but remember that every show is a learning experience. You will definitely get better at it with more practice and as you become more comfortable with your presentation. And don't forget, the most important thing is that your host and guests had a great time and enjoyed the products. So take a deep breath, be proud of your success, and keep moving forward. You got this! Best of luck with your future shows.
 

Frequently Asked Questions

Ever Get Mad at Yourself After Shows?

It's common to feel frustrated after a show if things didn't go as planned. Remember that every experience is a learning opportunity. Reflect on what went well and what could be improved for next time.

What should I do if I forget to mention a key product during my show?

Don't be too hard on yourself! It happens to everyone. You can follow up with your guests via email or social media to highlight the product and offer any special promotions. This also keeps the conversation going and shows your commitment to customer service.

How can I prevent feeling mad at myself after a show?

Preparation is key. Create a checklist of items to cover during your presentation, and practice your show multiple times. Additionally, set realistic expectations for yourself and remember that not every show will be perfect.

Is it normal to feel disappointed after a low sales show?

Absolutely. It's normal to feel disappointed, but try to focus on the positives. Each show is a chance to connect with potential customers and build relationships. Analyze what might have gone wrong and use that information to improve future shows.

How can I turn my frustration into motivation for future shows?

Use your feelings of frustration as fuel to improve. Set specific goals for your next show, whether it's increasing sales, engaging more with guests, or trying a new recipe. Keeping a positive mindset and focusing on growth can help you channel that energy productively.

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