Host Keeps Changing Dates - How Many Times Before I Say No?

Discussion Overview

The thread discusses the challenges faced by participants when dealing with friends who frequently change dates for hosting parties. Participants share their frustrations and experiences regarding how to handle such situations without jeopardizing their business commitments.

Discussion Character

• Anecdotal
• Opinion-based
• Exploratory

Main Points Raised

• One participant expresses frustration over a friend's repeated rescheduling of a party, feeling that it disrupts their calendar and income.
• Another participant suggests that it may be best to inform the friend to reach out when she is ready to host, allowing the consultant to move on.
• A different participant agrees, recommending that the consultant should not offer key dates to the friend and instead suggest a weeknight for the party.
• One participant shares a similar experience with a long-time friend, noting that friends may not view the business as a job, and suggests offering a catalog show as an alternative.
• Another participant emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, mentioning a need for a minimum cancellation notice to manage bookings effectively.
• A participant recounts their experience of suggesting a catalog show, but the friend is still hesitant, highlighting the urgency of needing orders for commission purposes.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally agree on the need to set boundaries with friends regarding hosting dates, though specific approaches and experiences vary.

Contextual Notes

The discussion reflects personal experiences of consultants navigating the complexities of balancing friendships with business commitments, particularly in the context of scheduling parties.

Who May Find This Useful

Consultants who are managing relationships with friends as hosts may find the shared experiences and viewpoints relevant to their own situations.