I had my host for tonight just call and cancel b/c her mom fell yesterday in adult daycare- they sent her home, and then she fell again today at home. My host is now on her way to the ER with her mom and is not mentally prepared, nor is her home prepared, for a party tonight. Obviously I completely understand this and told her to please take care, I hope her mom is ok, and get back to me when she's ready to reschedule. I would like to follow up with her so she doesn't fall off the radar though. I was thinking tonight when I get home to shoot her a quick email as follows, do you think this is a good response or too pushy? Hi Theresa! I'm so sorry again to hear about your mom, I hope all is ok with her. Below are the dates I currently have available for November- let me know if you'd like me to hold one of them for us to reschedule your party and we can catch up next week to confirm. If you're not ready to pick a date yet that's ok, just get in touch with me when things have settled down a bit. I'll try to check back with you in a week or two! I hope the rest of your weekend is enjoyable and best wishes for a quick recovery for your mom!