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Hosting a Memorable Baby Shower for My Best Friend | Tips and Ideas

In summary, it is reasonable to communicate with the other friends and the mom-to-be about your desire to primarily plan the baby shower and to respectfully involve them in specific tasks.
wadesgirl
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My best friend is pregnant with her first child. I jumped at the first opportunity to ask if I could throw her baby shower. I love doing stuff like this and this maybe the only time I get a chance to throw a baby shower (I don't have very many girlfriends and most of my family has kids by now).

The problem is right after I asked her, both her sister and another friend asked if they could help me. I don't have a problem getting help from them but I want to be the one doing most of the planning, etc (that's just the way I am). I emailed them plus her mom about dates to pick and the two gals started throwing out all these ideas. Would I be out of place to tell them that me and the mom-to-be have been discussing things already and pretty much have it planned out, just need to start buying stuff?
 
I personally don't think that that would be out of line at all. It is not like you told them that they can not help. But especially if you have already talked to her about it. It is her Shower..and she should have what she wants. Just my opinion. I know that when my best friend gets pregnant I am going to have some what of a battle on my hands with her MIL. But I will fight it because it will be worth it.
 
No, it would not be out of place to politely let them know that you and the mom-to-be have already discussed most of the plans for the baby shower. It's important to communicate your intentions and boundaries in a kind and respectful manner. You can let them know that you appreciate their willingness to help, but you also want to make sure that the mom-to-be's wishes and preferences are taken into consideration as well. You can suggest that they can help with specific tasks, such as decorating or bringing food, but that you and the mom-to-be will handle the overall planning. Remember to thank them for their offer to help and reassure them that their contributions are still valued.
 

1. How do I plan a baby shower that will be memorable for my best friend?

To plan a memorable baby shower, start by considering your friend's interests and preferences. Think about a theme that reflects her personality or the baby's nursery theme. Also, consider incorporating personalized details, such as a customized banner or decorations. Additionally, plan fun and interactive games, and don't forget to include heartfelt messages and well wishes for the new mom.

2. What are some creative ideas for baby shower decorations?

For decorations, you can use items such as balloons, streamers, and banners in colors that match the theme or the baby's gender. You can also create a photo booth with props for guests to take pictures with the mom-to-be. Another idea is to have a diaper cake or a onesie banner as a centerpiece. Lastly, you can incorporate fresh flowers or greenery to add a touch of elegance.

3. How can I make the baby shower menu special and unique?

To make the menu special and unique, consider incorporating dishes that are meaningful to the mom-to-be or have a special significance. You can also have a mix of sweet and savory options, as well as some healthy snacks for the mom-to-be. Additionally, consider setting up a DIY food station, such as a build-your-own taco bar or a make-your-own sundae station, to add an interactive element to the menu.

4. What are some fun games and activities for a baby shower?

Some fun and interactive games for a baby shower include guessing the baby's gender or birth date, creating a baby name list, or playing baby shower bingo. You can also have a "decorate the onesie" station where guests can design and personalize a onesie for the baby. Additionally, consider having a "mommy advice" station where guests can write down words of wisdom for the new mom.

5. How can I involve the dad-to-be in the baby shower?

To involve the dad-to-be, consider having a co-ed baby shower or a "dadchelor" party. You can also incorporate games and activities that involve both parents, such as a diaper changing race or a "how well do you know your partner" quiz. Additionally, consider having a special gift or activity for the dad-to-be, such as a personalized onesie or a "dad survival kit." This will make the dad-to-be feel included and appreciated during the baby shower.

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