wadesgirl
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My best friend is pregnant with her first child. I jumped at the first opportunity to ask if I could throw her baby shower. I love doing stuff like this and this maybe the only time I get a chance to throw a baby shower (I don't have very many girlfriends and most of my family has kids by now).
The problem is right after I asked her, both her sister and another friend asked if they could help me. I don't have a problem getting help from them but I want to be the one doing most of the planning, etc (that's just the way I am). I emailed them plus her mom about dates to pick and the two gals started throwing out all these ideas. Would I be out of place to tell them that me and the mom-to-be have been discussing things already and pretty much have it planned out, just need to start buying stuff?
The problem is right after I asked her, both her sister and another friend asked if they could help me. I don't have a problem getting help from them but I want to be the one doing most of the planning, etc (that's just the way I am). I emailed them plus her mom about dates to pick and the two gals started throwing out all these ideas. Would I be out of place to tell them that me and the mom-to-be have been discussing things already and pretty much have it planned out, just need to start buying stuff?