BACKGROUND: My daughter (15 mos) is wearing 18mo footed jammies. She is short, so the feet kind of move. We pull them up, but she pulls them down and sometimes slides. Since we mostly have carpet, its not really a problem. I get home, I notice Mary is in her jammies, ready for bed. Nice! THE "INCIDENT": I am busy making dinner after a really long day. Apparantly, Mary slipped in the kitchen and landed on her tush, didn't even notice. Well, Dave comes right up to me and lays down his ruling: "I don't want her in those pajamas anymore. They aren't safe. She hurts herself!!" I say, "Well, then, don't put her in them anymore." He gets mad at me, mutters something, and stomps away. Its not like *I* dressed her.