I am making reminder calls for my show on Friday because in my haste and trying to do too many things at once I sent them out saying Sept 7th instead of Oct 7th. Anyway, I called one # and asked for Lois, a man answered, I am assuming it was her husband. ( I hate getting spouses when I am trying to leave a message like this it is always so confusing:grumpy He asks me what this is regarding and I tell him I am calling for her friend Julie----, and just wanted to clarify that the party was this Friday Oct 7th not Sept 7th, He says in a very friendly tone, ok well she won't be able to make it because we have plans this Friday. I thank him, THEN he says.....in the same friendly tone. Oh and by the way she doesn't have any friend named Julie ---- I can't stand any of the ----'s and you make sure to tell them that. And I say ok:bugeye: he kind of chuckled and hung up, I have no idea if he was being serious or not or if his wife even has plans this Friday but I am sure my host wouldn't invite her if they are enemies, the guest list was relatively small to start with which usually means they are only inviting close friends. What the Heck?