pcsharon1
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I guess I am just looking for someone to complain to. There has been a lot going on.
First, there is my sis-in-laws wedding. This wedding has been an obsession with my husbands entire family since she got engaged last year. I've had a lot of trouble dealing with how overboard they are all going. Mainly because they were horrible to me when my husband and I got married. They thought we were too young (we were very young, 18-19) and really didn't want any part of anything. They would ask me things like "what do we have to pay for? We don't have money to waste on flowers? We've figured out that the cheapest way to do the rehearsal dinner is to grill" Stuff like that. Well now my sis-in-law is getting married, to someone we have all only met a couple times (they haven't even known one another a year yet) and she gets whatever she wants. That's not the real problem. They expect us to come. We live in Colorado and they are in Virginia. My husband is active duty army and they will give him a 3-day pass. Which means we would have to fly in on Friday and back by Sunday. And it's just over $500 a ticket. I can't pay nearly $1600 for the three of us to go somewhere overnight - but that's what they expect. So every time we hear from them all they want to talk about is the wedding, and are we coming, and why aren't we coming. My husband is planning to go alone and I know they are going to give him a hard time while he's there because we didn't all come.
Then there is my husband who insists that even though we are paying $500 for him to fly to the wedding that we still have to buy her an expensive wedding gift because it will look bad if we don't. I think him being there is a great gift or he can stay here and we can send her cookware!:chef: (ordered in her name and paid full price for so it can count as a show!)
Then the final straw came yesterday when my husband told me he is up for a specialized school - Master Gunner school for those of you who are/know military - that would be a big benefit to him in the future and in getting promoted:thumbup:. If he gets picked up for it, which seems probable, he leaves on August 28th for Georgia and won't be back until December 23rd. :thumbdown: That's another four months of him being away. He just got back from a year in Iraq in March. :grumpy: Now we are just waiting to see if the orders come through.
Also, if we are going to make this a little PC related..............my June is very slow, not what you want in a sell-a-thon month.
Thanks for letting me rant a little!
First, there is my sis-in-laws wedding. This wedding has been an obsession with my husbands entire family since she got engaged last year. I've had a lot of trouble dealing with how overboard they are all going. Mainly because they were horrible to me when my husband and I got married. They thought we were too young (we were very young, 18-19) and really didn't want any part of anything. They would ask me things like "what do we have to pay for? We don't have money to waste on flowers? We've figured out that the cheapest way to do the rehearsal dinner is to grill" Stuff like that. Well now my sis-in-law is getting married, to someone we have all only met a couple times (they haven't even known one another a year yet) and she gets whatever she wants. That's not the real problem. They expect us to come. We live in Colorado and they are in Virginia. My husband is active duty army and they will give him a 3-day pass. Which means we would have to fly in on Friday and back by Sunday. And it's just over $500 a ticket. I can't pay nearly $1600 for the three of us to go somewhere overnight - but that's what they expect. So every time we hear from them all they want to talk about is the wedding, and are we coming, and why aren't we coming. My husband is planning to go alone and I know they are going to give him a hard time while he's there because we didn't all come.
Then there is my husband who insists that even though we are paying $500 for him to fly to the wedding that we still have to buy her an expensive wedding gift because it will look bad if we don't. I think him being there is a great gift or he can stay here and we can send her cookware!:chef: (ordered in her name and paid full price for so it can count as a show!)
Then the final straw came yesterday when my husband told me he is up for a specialized school - Master Gunner school for those of you who are/know military - that would be a big benefit to him in the future and in getting promoted:thumbup:. If he gets picked up for it, which seems probable, he leaves on August 28th for Georgia and won't be back until December 23rd. :thumbdown: That's another four months of him being away. He just got back from a year in Iraq in March. :grumpy: Now we are just waiting to see if the orders come through.
Also, if we are going to make this a little PC related..............my June is very slow, not what you want in a sell-a-thon month.
Thanks for letting me rant a little!