Please keep my sister in your prayers. I just hope and pray that this step will be the first step of her finally working towards getting some peace. It's a really long story, but right now my parents are with her packing up all her things and helping her move out. She will be staying with them now for who knows how long. She has been trying to hold on to the marriage for so long now. Then she started hanging in there while she formulated an exit strategy, but things have gotten so bad she can't stay there any more. On a side note, does anyone have any connections to a divorce lawyer, or just someone they can ask for some advice on her behalf? Her husband has racked up a huge amount of debt (some of the debt they did together, some has been him going crazy.) He has a lawyer in the family and we worry that somehow he's going to work things to be against my sister and somehow saddle her with it. Is there a way they divide the debt or something? Sadly, but thankfully, they don't have children together so they don't have to worry about that aspect. But he has children from a previous marriage who my sister has been helping to raise for over 10 years. It's really hard on her.