ms_twana
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Sorry this is so long. But I needed to vent and ask some advice on how to handle this situation.
Okay. Yesterday was my 30th day. A church friend of mine held the last show within my 30 day period. I was only $300 away from goal at that point. Well, whenever I tried to call and host coach her, she didn't answer. She changed the date of the show at the last minute and never sent me a guest list. She said she sent the invitations herself. So we get to the show last Saturday and there are TWO people there. One of our other church members came over and my host said to her "I didn't even think to invite you." That's how I know she didn't invite the 40 people that I told her to. The guest sales for that show was about $50. :thumbdown:
I made the mistake of telling her my ACTUAL deadline for getting orders in (I'll NEVER do that again). So everyday this past week I called her to see where she was on getting orders. She just kept saying she had people that wanted to order. So we get to Friday (my 30th day) and she said she had two people whose checks she needed to go pick up at about 10:00 P.M. Ten o'clock came and went with no phone call. Ten thirty came and went with no phone call and with her not answering my call. Well at 11:00 I called and left her a message (because she didn't answer) saying that I was putting her show in at 11:15 with or without the other orders. And that's what I ended up doing because she never called me back. UGH!!!
I submitted that show at about 11:45. I'm STILL very angry with her. Of the $218 show that I submitted last night, $145 of it was from me pulling in orders. So, I used those host benefits myself. Is that wrong?? I do not feel comfortable giving her the benefits when I pulled the orders in. Luckily, I had a co-worker who had wanted the DCB, so that item took me to my goal. The host wanted a DCB as well, so I ordered it and that took my commissionable sales up to the $300 that I needed
So anyway, I vented about all of that because I don't really know how to handle her at this point. She STILL hasn't called and said a word to me. We're not good friends or anything. We work together on our church's women's ministry. But, we are cool enough for me to not expect that from her. At this point, I really don't even want to talk to her. What should I say??
Okay. Yesterday was my 30th day. A church friend of mine held the last show within my 30 day period. I was only $300 away from goal at that point. Well, whenever I tried to call and host coach her, she didn't answer. She changed the date of the show at the last minute and never sent me a guest list. She said she sent the invitations herself. So we get to the show last Saturday and there are TWO people there. One of our other church members came over and my host said to her "I didn't even think to invite you." That's how I know she didn't invite the 40 people that I told her to. The guest sales for that show was about $50. :thumbdown:
I made the mistake of telling her my ACTUAL deadline for getting orders in (I'll NEVER do that again). So everyday this past week I called her to see where she was on getting orders. She just kept saying she had people that wanted to order. So we get to Friday (my 30th day) and she said she had two people whose checks she needed to go pick up at about 10:00 P.M. Ten o'clock came and went with no phone call. Ten thirty came and went with no phone call and with her not answering my call. Well at 11:00 I called and left her a message (because she didn't answer) saying that I was putting her show in at 11:15 with or without the other orders. And that's what I ended up doing because she never called me back. UGH!!!
I submitted that show at about 11:45. I'm STILL very angry with her. Of the $218 show that I submitted last night, $145 of it was from me pulling in orders. So, I used those host benefits myself. Is that wrong?? I do not feel comfortable giving her the benefits when I pulled the orders in. Luckily, I had a co-worker who had wanted the DCB, so that item took me to my goal. The host wanted a DCB as well, so I ordered it and that took my commissionable sales up to the $300 that I needed
So anyway, I vented about all of that because I don't really know how to handle her at this point. She STILL hasn't called and said a word to me. We're not good friends or anything. We work together on our church's women's ministry. But, we are cool enough for me to not expect that from her. At this point, I really don't even want to talk to her. What should I say??