I am having my first party tomorrow (finally!!!) for a good friend of mine. He happens to be married to my recruiter (gulp - fortunately she has been my best friend since we were 9 years old) but wanted to host my first show. Here is the difficulty: The party is being held at his wife's (the other consultant) mom's house. The mom has already hosted two shows in the last 2 months, and attended at least two others. Even though she is not technically the host, she still has to clean the house and get ready and have a whole bunch of people show up and all the stuff that goes along with being the host. I have heard through the gossip grapevine (we live in a VERY small town) that she feels like she was pressured to do this and is only doing it out of a feeling of duty to her daughter and son-in-law. I feel bad that she is coming into the party feeling like this. I believe she will feel better once we are at the party and everyone is having fun, but I would still like to give her some sort of special gift or a thank you of some sort (my firend and her husband too). I know they have access to everything PC, but I still feel like I should be able to find something. Does anyone have any ideas?