I've tried looking this up on the FB help page, but it just left my mind in knots. I've noticed that when I post an update, it also appears beside my picture in the friends lists of my friends. When I look at the friends lists of my friends, I also sometimes see a posting next to the picture of people I don't know on their list. (Just writing this is confusing me!). The bottom line is how do I prevent my status from posting on those friend lists where people I don't know can see them? I have all my settings to 'friends only', so I don't know understand how it is happening. Any FB-smart folks there who can help me? Thanks in advance!!!!!!!!!!