Shelby, having gone through a divorce several years ago in what sounds like a similar situation, I just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you. My ex and I get along better now than we had in years and the kids have better relationships with him than they had for a while. It's tough, even when it's necessary, but when everyone is happier with the outcome, it's worth it! I have a sister that lives in LaVista so maybe we'll get a chance to meet sometime. Take care and I'll be thinking of you. Marci