AJPratt
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Discussion Overview
The thread explores the challenges and personal experiences related to public speaking among participants, particularly in the context of hosting cooking shows. Participants share their feelings of nervousness and strategies for overcoming these fears, as well as the transformative impact of engaging in such activities.
Discussion Character
- Anecdotal
- Opinion-based
- Exploratory
Main Points Raised
- One participant mentions a friend who is shy and unsure about speaking in front of people, expressing concern that this might hold her back from trying.
- Another participant shares their experience of overcoming a fear of public speaking, noting that practice shows in front of stuffed animals helped them gain confidence.
- One participant suggests that training resources, like tele-classes and note cards, could be beneficial for those feeling nervous.
- A participant reflects on their own initial fear of speaking and cooking, describing how taking the leap was a personal challenge that led to significant life changes and increased confidence.
- Another participant, who identifies as someone comfortable speaking, acknowledges the difficulty some face and expresses a desire to help others overcome their fears.
Areas of Agreement / Disagreement
Views differ among participants regarding the level of comfort with public speaking, with some sharing personal success stories while others express ongoing concerns. No clear consensus emerges on the best approach to overcoming these fears.
Contextual Notes
Participants discuss their individual journeys with public speaking in the context of Pampered Chef shows, highlighting the personal growth and confidence gained through these experiences.
Who May Find This Useful
Consultants who are hesitant about public speaking or are considering hosting shows may find the shared experiences and insights relevant to their own situations.
GeorgiaPeach
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I had the same concern. I tell my guests that I almost didn't graduate from college because I had to take public speaking and look at me now 
(My Mom informed me that not graduating was NOT an option!) My desire to stay home with my children pushed me enough to give it a try. Before my first show I did a couple "practice" shows in front of my son's stuffed animals....I know that sounds lame but I didn't want humans seeing me 
When I started doing actual shows I was amazed at how quickly I felt comfortable in front of people. Letting them know that I was just getting started helped because they were all very kind and helpful.
(My Mom informed me that not graduating was NOT an option!) My desire to stay home with my children pushed me enough to give it a try. Before my first show I did a couple "practice" shows in front of my son's stuffed animals....I know that sounds lame but I didn't want humans seeing me When I started doing actual shows I was amazed at how quickly I felt comfortable in front of people. Letting them know that I was just getting started helped because they were all very kind and helpful.
pamperedbecky
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I was the same exact way! The fear of speaking in front of others and not liking to cook could have very well prevented me from giving this a try. But, I looked at it as a personal challenge to myself. I knew I'd always wonder if I would have liked this if I didn't give it a try. It was a really a step out of the old comfort zone. But I can tell you (and sometimes I say it may sound cheesy) because I know lots of you in chefsuccess land will understand that this experience has totally changed my life. It's changed me as a person, it's helped me build confidence in SOOOO many areas (not just cooking ), it's helped me discover skills I didn't even know I had, it's allowed me to contribute significantly to the income and it's allowed me to stay home with my kids. There's really nothing you can say that will give her the magic answer that will ultimately encourage her to do this because she'll really need to decide that for herself, but if you give her all the information and feedback that you can, then at least she can make an educated decision. I know there are others out there who were from the same boat as me.
I just truly hope people who are teetering on the edge of deciding whether or not to do this at least give it a try! It can be a life-changing experience. It may not be for everyone, but if people at least give it a try, at least they'll never wonder. Good luck!
), it's helped me discover skills I didn't even know I had, it's allowed me to contribute significantly to the income and it's allowed me to stay home with my kids. There's really nothing you can say that will give her the magic answer that will ultimately encourage her to do this because she'll really need to decide that for herself, but if you give her all the information and feedback that you can, then at least she can make an educated decision. I know there are others out there who were from the same boat as me.I just truly hope people who are teetering on the edge of deciding whether or not to do this at least give it a try! It can be a life-changing experience. It may not be for everyone, but if people at least give it a try, at least they'll never wonder. Good luck!
AJPratt
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Debbie: I haven't tried the teleclasses yet. I think its my next step, just to help me overall.
Becky & GeorgiaPeach: Thank you for your insight. Its comical to see me, someone who has never had a problem talking in front of people, trying to help someone who does overcome that fear, and objection. Sure, I may get bervous, buts its not the concern thatmost people have. I say: I undertsand what your concern is, but I really don't. I guess I'm just a ham.
Becky & GeorgiaPeach: Thank you for your insight. Its comical to see me, someone who has never had a problem talking in front of people, trying to help someone who does overcome that fear, and objection. Sure, I may get bervous, buts its not the concern thatmost people have. I say: I undertsand what your concern is, but I really don't. I guess I'm just a ham.
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