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wadesgirl
10-06-2009, 07:56 AM
If you could just keep me in your thoughts and prayers. I'm having to make one of the biggest decisions in my life right now and I'm not sure what to do. I have my heart telling me one thing and my gut telling me another. Either way I'll get hurt. Not a good time to be me right now :(

tmseiling
10-06-2009, 08:03 AM
My prayers are with you.

lauriedip
10-06-2009, 08:04 AM
praying for you, know there is light at the end of the tunnel, someday.
laurie

gailz2
10-06-2009, 08:04 AM
You're in my thoughts and prayers to get through whatever this is. Have confidence that you'll make the best decision possible. Is there anyone you can talk this over with? Have you tried making a pro's con's list of each choice?

heather223
10-06-2009, 09:19 AM
You and in my thoughts and prayers as well.

dkitten13
10-06-2009, 09:55 AM
Wow, that's rough. Prayers to you!

pamperedpals
10-06-2009, 10:49 AM
Praying for strength to get you through this hard time.

crystalscookingnow
10-06-2009, 11:35 AM
I'm praying for you.

wadesgirl
10-06-2009, 12:03 PM
You're in my thoughts and prayers to get through whatever this is. Have confidence that you'll make the best decision possible. Is there anyone you can talk this over with? Have you tried making a pro's con's list of each choice?

My sister has been right there beside me! I haven't made a list yet only because I know what I really should do but I'm still torn!

crystalscookingnow
10-06-2009, 12:05 PM
That's a tough place to be. I pray that you receive the guidance & strength that you need to make the right decision.

pampchefrhondab
10-06-2009, 07:00 PM
Aww, I'm sorry to hear this! I'm praying for you!

PamperedChefLayla
10-06-2009, 08:02 PM
Praying for God's will and that He will give you the strength to make the decision you need to make. God does not give us anything we can't handle it only helps us become the person he created us to be.

pampered.chris
10-06-2009, 08:12 PM
Praying for you!

etteluap70PC
10-06-2009, 09:33 PM
((( HUG ))) Trusting that you will find peace in the decisions you need to make/

Jolie_Paradoxe
10-06-2009, 11:39 PM
Praying for you and asking for strength and comfort through this...

AJPratt
10-06-2009, 11:50 PM
I hope everything works out. Is there any way we can help sort it out with you?

twinchefs
10-07-2009, 06:50 AM
Praying for you

wadesgirl
10-07-2009, 01:47 PM
I hope everything works out. Is there any way we can help sort it out with you?

I wish I could tell all on here and know I'd get some great advice but I'm afraid of what I want to/don't want to say publicly! I'm still struggling with the choice I have to make. I just don't know what to do.

stefani2
10-07-2009, 02:58 PM
thinking of you - wish you a clear mind and courage. :)

pamperedpals
10-08-2009, 09:32 AM
I have this quote on my computer at work and my bulletin board at home and it has helped me tremendously this last month.

"The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you."

Still prayer for strength for you.

AJPratt
10-08-2009, 03:04 PM
I wish I could tell all on here and know I'd get some great advice but I'm afraid of what I want to/don't want to say publicly! I'm still struggling with the choice I have to make. I just don't know what to do.

I totally understand. You could always PM me or someone you are comfortable with. Good luck! You will make the right decision.

wadesgirl
10-08-2009, 04:45 PM
I totally understand. You could always PM me or someone you are comfortable with. Good luck! You will make the right decision.

Thanks! I love that I can come here and get great support.

AJPratt
10-08-2009, 04:50 PM
Me, too! It makes such a huge difference in my life! I know it will work out!

pcchefjane
10-08-2009, 08:21 PM
Praying for you and your decisions here!

AJPratt
10-08-2009, 08:56 PM
Just don't quit PC!

Dina Atnip
10-08-2009, 10:12 PM
Praying for God's will to see you thru.

wadesgirl
10-09-2009, 07:48 AM
Just don't quit PC!

Heck no! That is the one thing I do love in my life!

AJPratt
10-10-2009, 01:08 AM
Heck no! That is the one thing I do love in my life!

Well, thank Gawd! (my Jersey accent, that I really don't have LOL)

DEBBI
10-11-2009, 05:54 PM
Have you considered opening up to your pc (military)sisters. I'm a wife of a retiree( married 34 years now) and i know that often times miltary wifes understand what others do not... Remember we were not issued to our spouses

debbi

pampered1224
10-12-2009, 12:39 PM
Got say that you sound like I did several months ago. All though I am totally sure what you are facing is quite different from what I had too. However, I had a Saturday to myself and I was totally in the dumper. I had e-mailed everyone in my cluster that prior Friday that I had decided to quit PC. I was so depressed and down that I was already considering several very STUPID options. One included a one way trip to Montana the other, well, let's just say there was no turning back from. I was so confused, tired and so completely discombobulated that I just could not handle it. And everyone I asked, gave me different answers. Anyway, I decided that on following Saturday morning to put the question out there to God. Then I shut up!
About half way through that Saturday, I got my answer. It is funny how the answer came via a TV program I just happened to stumble upon on Satelite, which I normally do not watch, but there it was.
Anyway, the following Monday I made ther phone calls and appointments i needed to make and since then, all is right with the world.
Put the question out there for God to hear. Then shut up and listen. You will get the guidence you need if you truely "let go and let God."
My thoughs and prayers are with you.
Oh remember something else, the answer may NOT be at all what you expect. I know I ended up doing things to make things right that I had never had any intention of doing. But I had to in order to "fix" me.

wadesgirl
10-12-2009, 12:49 PM
Got say that you sound like I did several months ago. All though I am totally sure what you are facing is quite different from what I had too. However, I had a Saturday to myself and I was totally in the dumper. I had e-mailed everyone in my cluster that prior Friday that I had decided to quit PC. I was so depressed and down that I was already considering several very STUPID options. One included a one way trip to Montana the other, well, let's just say there was no turning back from. I was so confused, tired and so completely discombobulated that I just could not handle it. And everyone I asked, gave me different answers. Anyway, I decided that on following Saturday morning to put the question out there to God. Then I shut up!
About half way through that Saturday, I got my answer. It is funny how the answer came via a TV program I just happened to stumble upon on Satelite, which I normally do not watch, but there it was.
Anyway, the following Monday I made ther phone calls and appointments i needed to make and since then, all is right with the world.
Put the question out there for God to hear. Then shut up and listen. You will get the guidence you need if you truely "let go and let God."
My thoughs and prayers are with you.
Oh remember something else, the answer may NOT be at all what you expect. I know I ended up doing things to make things right that I had never had any intention of doing. But I had to in order to "fix" me.



Thanks for the great words of encouragement! Glad to hear you managed through it!

I actually made my decision this last weekend. I had one last thing that just pushed me over the edge. Please keep praying for me though, it will be a tough couple of weeks/months ahead of me.

Quitting PC isn't an option for me at this point, it is truely the on good thing in my life. But I know at some point last year I had that feeling and came on here for some great support and encouragement and was able to get the help I needed that actually had nothing to do with PC!

pamperedpals
10-12-2009, 01:26 PM
I will continue to pray that you receive the strength and guidance you need during this time. {{{HUGS}}}